Future Focused Co-Parenting
It’s very easy to get stuck in the day-to-day stress of life. Add in a difficult separation, ex-partner, or family law proceedings (or all three)
Protective Caregiving
How to create a safe, secure environment while sharing care after family violence. One of the most difficult aspects of family law is coming to
Doing What It Takes
Doing What It Takes Within my Parenting Coordination and Mediation work I am grateful to come across parents who have made sacrifices to shield their
Little Changes for a Happy Christmas
At this time of year, there is an inevitable rush to have matters resolved for the long school holidays, including Christmas. There is a heavy reliance on services to help parents and while I encourage people to utilise those services, it’s also possible to organise this without interventions.
Preparation for Mediation
Minimise Conflict, Maximise Results This 53 minute video gives insights into what is required to get the best results from mediation. If you’d like further
Peacemakers In Family Law – Trailblazing Change
While we are empathetic and considerate in our interactions, being a peacemaker is not a passive role. It’s one that often challenges narratives and beliefs. It’s a role that sometimes means being prepared to roll up your sleeves and rumble with really difficult conversations.
Recent Changes to the Family Court – and what it means for parents
On the 1st of September 2021, the Family Court and Federal Circuit Court merged, creating a new pathway for parents navigating disputes after separation. The
It’s Not Me, It’s You – dealing with a narcissist’s letter in family law
This is such a hard subject to write about because a narcissist, as you probably know, is often found to be pointing the finger of blame
Letting Go – the powerful end to separation conflict
In working with the volume of parents I do on a daily basis, one constant I notice in ongoing conflict cases is the subconscious emotional
Six Questions To Ask Before Family Mediation
What helps the mediation process is if you are putting the children first in parenting decisions. It can be hard to separate your own needs from those of the children, so I’ve prepared some questions to keep the kids in mind.
The Non-Negotiable Coparent
There is an enormous cost to society if we do not radically change the pathway for parents in dispute. We tend to focus on fixing the legal system when what we need to consider deeply is embarking on a support pathway that makes the court system far less relied upon. Our children, the very people we purport to protect, carry the lasting burden of their parents’ conflict.
Activities for engaging your children online
Often the non-resident parent (be that for a week, or extended period) will report having difficulty in engaging children online. Phone calls, Skype and Facetime